Seriously, why in the hell would you break the barrier? Somethings are better off left to the “mystery”… You know, sort of like those “mysteries” on a rosary… They are secrets…
A man should be a gentleman in the presence of his woman and a woman should be lady like in her man’s company…(but a porn star in bed ;-P)
Don’t break anything in front of each other…Especially the “Barrier”. Never ever.
End of conversation.